Energy and joy

Last Saturday, Asher and I spent the day watching a fabulous 5 year old so that my friends could enjoy an afternoon/evening date. We had a great time...taking turns being the "bad ninja," going to a nearby park, having hot cocoa and snacks, using a number of the different costumes in his play room, and being blown up by pretend bombs quite a bit, lol.  

Notes:

• I'm very glad I brought Asher! He works with kids every day for his job and it was lovely getting to see him in action. He's good at letting kids be free while keeping an eye on safety, likes to climb things maybe more than kids do so is good at showing kids how, sincerely enjoys playing with kids' toys, and is pretty good at pretend dying.
• Little boys are fascinated by poop and farts. I have a nephew I've spent time with who recently went through the same phase. Wow. Honestly, I don't remember mine doing that. 
• Thanks to, well, many years of parenting and also having been around lots of kids including my nephews and nieces, I know just how much energy little kids can have. It's always a little impressive, though. :) 

And, so...whew. I'm so glad we were able to help out and will happily do so again and again. I'm also very appreciative of the age my boys are now and that they all had each other to keep busy and entertained. :) I miss, though, the pure joy of youth. It was just lovely experiencing it for hours. 

Five on Friday

Happy Friday, y'all! I missed yesterday's Thankful Thursday post so will list things today instead. :) Here, then, are five things I'm thankful for this week...

1. Last Thursday, my good friend Lynne had a Celebration of Life for her husband, who passed in August after an alarmingly quick battle with pancreatic cancer. It was a lovely gathering at one of his favorite local breweries, honoring his request to "just go out for a beer." I'm thankful for the outpouring of support and love for Lynne and her kids and am definitely thinking the Celebration of Life gathering approach is nicer than the more standard funeral/memorial. Having been to and helped organize funerals the week or so after death, this Celebration of Life a couple months later was actually a celebration and was less stressful than trying to set everything up during an already busy and emotional time. 

2. Kicking myself because I forgot to take a picture, but last Saturday a group of friends and I managed to get together to catch up. It was our "we used to all homeschool together" mom crew and we miraculously got 9 of us together at once. (I don't know that we've ever managed that before, lol.) It was lovely hearing about each other's kids...kids that we all watched grow up together...and catching up on everything else. So thankful that we survived homeschooling, that we did it together, and that we're still in each other's lives. 

3. Micah's not a fan of winter. His arthritis definitely gets worse with the cold weather, and the drop in temperatures here lately has reinforced his desire to go to college in southern California, lol. In our attempts to make things more comfortable for him, we recently added a space heater to his room. He'd refused our offers in the past, because he prefers to be cold when he sleeps. But then trying to get him out of bed in the morning was work. So. We got one of those smart outlets with an app and a timer so that he can program the heater to turn on at a certain time. Voila! The boy has been toasty when he wakes up this past week, and it's noticeably better. Whew.

4. I got it in my head recently to go through our medicine cabinet and purge things. I ended up throwing out a bunch of expired medications. I'm thankful for that...because having a bunch of expired medications is indicative of the fact that we don't go through very much medication, definitely not enough to use it up before it expires. Since that's all because we don't get sick often, I'm thankful. 

5. I see on social media that apparently November is National Adoption Month. It's not something I've really ever celebrated with a specific month before, but I'm definitely thankful for adoption. I'm adopted, one of my brothers is adopted, one of my sisters is adopted, a number of my cousins and friends are adopted, I have friends who have adopted. Adoption = good. :) 

So, that's my list. And, because I feel like cheating (on the "Five" part of my post), here's one last thing...thankful for the beautiful snow this morning...

Wasn't thrilled with the single digit temperatures; but, when the sun came out, you just couldn't help but appreciate the beauty. :)

Thankful Thursday

Okay, need to catch up a bit. Working backward(ish) from the most recent stuff, here are some of the things I'm thankful for...

1. Senior pictures. I took Micah and a friend to take some senior pictures earlier this week. Like his brothers, Micah didn't really care about senior pictures but humored me. :) We headed up to Horsetooth Reservoir...to a bouldering area...and took a bunch of pictures. They're not the greatest but they'll do for what I'm looking for (mainly for the graduation announcements). Saving the better shots for later, but here are some of the outtakes... 

(Unlike his brothers, Micah has no issues about posing, lol.) Thankful to have at least some pictures (we may take more later but at least we can submit something to the yearbook for now) and thankful for the time with my boy. 

2. Voting conversations. Nathan, Noah and I had a nice time discussing and filling out our ballots before I took all our ballots (plus Asher's) to a drop-off spot. I appreciate that we can and do have discussions. 

(Sidenote: Nathan would like to request that the next round of ballots come with self-sealing envelopes rather than the type he has to lick to seal. Apparently they taste awful. We may all have had him lick ours, too, lol.)

3. Time with friends. I've been blessed to have some awesome time with friends over the past weeks. Sadly, I didn't take pictures at all of them but have spent a lovely afternoon shopping with Deanna, enjoyed some day-drinking and lunch with Renee, and got pedicures with Molly. Yay for friends! 

(Here's Renee and me over lunch a couple weeks ago.)

4. Appreciation. A couple weeks ago, Micah submitted his first round of college applications and got me these flowers as a thank you for my help in editing essays and such...

Awww. Nice to be appreciated. :)

Okay, need to get going for now. Feels like it's been busy around here...demo team performing at a promotion, Micah attending his first concert down in Denver, meeting Micah's girlfriend's parents, Nathan's annual well check, Noah helping at a race in Loveland for work, starting to gear up for the holidays, and plenty of other stuff. Hope your November is going well!

Happy birthday to my oldest!

Yesterday, my Noah turned 22. So thankful for this firstborn of mine! 

He got off work a bit early and we took the opportunity to got climbing--him, Micah and me. (With Noah's work schedule and our preference for climbing earlier in the day, we haven't climbed altogether in awhile.) Then, once Asher got home from work, we all went out to dinner at Music City Hot Chicken and stopped at Whole Foods to grab some desserts to take home. (We couldn't all agree and Noah didn't just want a cake, so we each picked something, lol.) At home, we enjoyed our desserts and played some new Jackbox games and just basically had a lovely evening all together. I didn't take a single picture. :( 

Given that our days of height comparison photos are past...and given that I've got a number of other things I should be doing right now, lol...I'm just going to share this collage I made when Noah turned 20...

We're enjoying watching Noah's journey and the young man he's becoming. He's happy with his banking job right now, recently got a promotion, and has been responsibly taking a number of financial steps for his future. Beyond that, he's been learning about photography, working to get back into an exercise routine, and helping with cooking duties around here. :)

Happy birthday!

Halloween!

It was a different sort of Halloween here this year...in a couple ways. First, Noah dressed up! It was the first time he's dressed up for Halloween since 2010, people. 

He wasn't planning to. But last week his co-workers were talking about their costumes for Halloween and he decided to join in. Given the short notice, he decided to borrow Micah's costume this year. (Sidenote: Micah celebrated with friends in costume on Saturday. And not a single one of them took a photo so I have nothing. Sad. To be fair, Micah pointed out, he had no pockets so didn't have his phone with him. Still, poo. Anyhow, Micah went as Spider-Man.)

Given that Noah wasn't willing to just wear a speedo under the body suit like Micah did, lol, we came up with the brilliant idea to go as Peter B. Parker instead. Peter B. Parker is the semi-retired Spider-Man from "Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse"... 

Noah was trying to make a Peter B. Parker sort of face and even sported two different shoes. :) As it turned out, a couple of his co-workers bailed on their costumes, but Noah said he was still glad to be in costume...as being Peter was very comfy, moreso than his normal banking work clothes, lol. 

And, just because, here's a photo from 2010...the last time Noah dressed up for Halloween (he's Darth Vader)...

...and, while I was looking for that picture, I found these from 2012. It's one of my favorite Halloween memories. All three boys were attending LEAP (the one day a week enrichment program we used when we were homeschooling), but the school had declared it pajama day and asked kids not to wear costumes. Asher and Micah got around that by dressing as Noah. :) 

It was a period of time when Noah dressed very predictably, and it was hilarious because even the teachers recognized what the boys were doing, lol. 

I love the second picture of Asher acting like Noah, telling me to stop taking pictures, lol.

Back to this year now...

So, Micah did his dressing up on Saturday. Asher sadly didn't get to dress up for work because the kids weren't allowed to wear costumes. And Noah went as Peter B. Parker. Once everyone was home again, Asher took the opportunity to become a Spider-Jedi...and played with some of the other masks we have hanging around. He convinced me to also recycle a costume, so I went as a dragonfly. (This was Micah's costume in 2017.) And, the other thing that made this year different is that we decided to set up our fire pit in the driveway and just sit out there to hand out candy.

(Every so often, we've actually decorated for Halloween but our neighbor across the street has been going crazy with Halloween inflatables the past few years so we've basically given up on competing with that, lol.)

Our time in the driveway was lovely.

• The boys all came and joined us for parts of it..and snitched some candy, lol.
• We got to see and enjoy the trick-or-treaters' costumes more without having to open and close the door so much. (It's so fun when kids are thrilled that you recognize what their costume is.)
• We handed out about 50 full size candy bars. (Our neighborhood used to get a lot more trick-or-treaters but it was pretty slow this year. But. We guessed just about spot on for how much candy we'd bought so now have none left in the house...which is both good and bad, lol.)
• We lured one neighbor out in her pajamas to catch up and visit, and we got to know another neighbor that we hadn't met before (who was drawn to our fire and stuck around to chat).
• We may have also enjoyed some alcoholic drinks around the fire. :) 
• And we appreciated the beautiful fall weather which was pretty much perfect.

And one of the most cool things was these two little kids (a brother and sister). The older sister was dressed as a mime and the younger brother was Venom...who was then thrilled to see our Spider-Jedi. (Asher was the only boy still outside with us at that point I think.) Asher absolutely made his night by doing a backflip and then a front flip. Later, the mime brought a friend over to trick-or-treat but also to break character and actually ask where the "backflip guy" was. :) Sadly, Asher had gone inside to eat at that point. So the sister left and told her brother...who then came by a little later again just to check and see for himself. :) Yeah, I probably should have gone inside and gotten Asher. But it was still so sweet. 

So, that was our Halloween. It was good. :)