HELLO

Hi. I'm Amanda...a happy wife and mom to three awesome guys. We've lived here in Fort Collins for more than 20 years and are proud to call it home. Before moving to CO, I worked at a city attorney's office, making use of my law and Master's degrees from Duke. After settling in Fort Collins, I homeschooled my three (now teenage and older) sons and was delighted to experience music classes, soccer, karate, swim team, archery, Science Olympiad, First Lego League, parkour, and climbing (not all at the same time!). From 2005-10, I was also a contributing editor for a national scrapbooking magazine, authoring a book and a couple of monthly columns. From 2009-10, I founded and ran the Good Grief Blog. I enjoy learning new things, spending time with my family, volunteering with The Matthews House, traveling and indoor rock climbing.

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Entries from December 1, 2016 - December 31, 2016

Saturday
Dec312016

Twenty

Twenty years. That's 7305 days. That's a lot of days, people. 

As of today, Nathan and I have been married that many days...that many years. I continue to be so very blessed. He is my partner, my provider, my protector, my heart. We've definitely had some years that were tougher than others, but we've weathered them together and learned together and grown together...and there's no one else I'd rather have by my side.

As usual, we aren't celebrating our anniversary tonight, as New Year's Eve gets too crazy. ;) And we sadly aren't in a financial position to take that Mediterranean cruise I've been angling for for awhile, lol. Instead, responsibly, we simply enjoyed an afternoon and evening together on Thursday...some walking around Old Town, plenty of talking and holding hands, dinner at a new-to-us restaurant. Here's us in Old Town Square warming up near one of the outdoor fires:

And then we came home to an anniversary miracle:

Yes, this is Holly. Sadly, Holly's internal light show hadn't been working. She was the floor model at Home Depot (one of the last ones in this part of Colorado) and we didn't discover the lights weren't working until it was too late to take her back right away (given Christmas and all). Nathan looked at the system but decided there was no fixing her. I was debating whether to try to find another store that might still have one that I could exchange for. 

But, then we came home Thursday night and LOOK! Her lights started working. We can't figure out why. I'm going to believe that she wanted to recognize how awesome we are to be celebrating twenty years. :)

Yesterday night, I surprised Nathan with the dvd from our wedding. Apparently, someone took a video at our wedding (I have no recollection who, btw...please tell me if you know!), and I had it converted from VHS earlier this year. Together with the boys, we watched it for the first time ever. It was lovely to see all the family and friends who were able to make it (amidst a winter storm that closed off all the roads around my hometown, meaning that about half of our rsvp's weren't able to make it)...and especially meaningful to see the faces no longer with us.

Beyond that, it was entertaining to see all the things I didn't really remember. (I was pretty sick...had had cortisone shots and was on codeine...kept a water bottle at the kneeler with me at the alter...and honestly don't remember much, lol.) Also, if you were at our wedding and got sick shortly thereafter, I apologize. I seriously wasn't altogether with it and didn't think about pesky things like germs...as I was shaking almost every single person's hand or giving them a hug, lol. And, we'd forgotten that the church's heat had gone out--as we watched people huddling in their winter coats and remembered that I was actually wearing long johns beneath my wedding dress. ;) The boys particularly got a kick out of Nathan's beard and huge glasses, lol.

That brings us to today...our actual anniversary. Today was spent mostly tackling the to do list (and being pretty darn productive, actually, yay!). Amid all that, I gave Nathan one last gift...a small album I made for our anniversary...with a photo for each year of our marriage and a list of some of the main memories from each year. Here are the photos:

(Sorry, I can't figure out how to change the order so that it would go from earlier years to recent as I'd prefer...instead it's going from recent back to 1996. Nor can I figure out how to not make it crop the vertical photos weird. It's actually the first time I've ever used the slideshow feature here, lol. If you want to see the actual pictures, they're in a gallery over on the left...or click "Galleries" under "Stuff I've Made" then select "Twenty Years.")

In looking through it, we were both reminded that...even though sometimes it feels like all we're accomplishing is getting through each day (and sometimes not even that, lol)...we're actually having such a beautiful life--full of adventures and moments and lessons and laughter. So very blessed.

Here's to the next twenty years... 

Monday
Dec262016

Shirts

Once upon a time, carrying on a lovely tradition that my mom started when I was a kid (that I loved!), I got boys Christmas pajamas every year, and they opened them on Christmas Eve and wore them that night.

And then boys got older and decided they didn't like wearing pajamas and didn't want Christmas pajamas.

And I was sad.

But then I decided to tweak the tradition and start getting the boys a shirt that represented each of them and/or their year instead of pajamas. (I'm pretty sure I started this in 2013.)

And this is what we ended up with this year for shirts:

Asher's is Iron Man, whom he still thinks is fabulous. Noah's is from Smite, a computer game that he's spent hours (and hours and hours) playing this past year. And Micah really wanted an ugly Christmas sweater and is seriously thrilled with his vomiting unicorn. :) (It's difficult to tell in this picture, but the unicorn and vomit are both glittery threads so are shiny.)

And now you know. ;) 

Sunday
Dec252016

Happy Holidays to all!

Just popping in this morning to wish you all a beautiful and family-filled day! Hope you manage to stay warm (it's started snowing here again--which is fine...and we're under a high wind warning--which is not as fine, as I dislike wind and it means I had to deflate my lovely inflatables, lol).

And, just for the record, my code this year was awesome. No one even came close to breaking it. ;) 

Each package had two numbers (separated by a semi-colon) and one or two letters. From the two numbers, you needed to add the numbers in the hundreds and tens column. If that sum was divisible by 7, it was Asher's...divisible by 8, it was Noah's...or ended in 5, it was Micah's. (I started out with divisible by 5 but then neglected to pay attention and used sums for the older two that were also divisible by five, so changed it.) The letters meant nothing...except that if there was an N it was from Noah and an A meant from Asher. (Micah wrapped his own gifts this year.)

(So, for instance, in the package above...add 28 and 00. That equals 28. Which is divisible by 7. So this is for Asher. No N, so it's from parents.)

Bwahaahaaa. ;)

I'll end with a version of our holiday card photo:

From our family to yours... 

(PS For whatever reason, the post office has returned a few of the cards I mailed earlier in the week...with no indication that they're addressed wrong or have insufficient postage or anything. It looks like they may have gone through the machine backward or something and thus been delivered to our return address (which was on the back). I'll try to mail them again tomorrow. Sorry.)

Saturday
Dec242016

Ridiculously happy

So. Look what Nathan just brought home...

Yesterday, Home Depot's inflatables went on sale! This beauty wasn't available online but our local store had one left...the floor model. Hooray!! And now our yard looks like this:

And I am ridiculously happy about it. ;) 

Merry Christmas Eve, y'all!

Thursday
Dec222016

Brewery Lights

In our continued efforts to get into the holiday spirit today, after schoolwork and having a friend over and karate, we headed up to the Anheuser Busch Brewery Lights celebration. A friend at boot camp told me about it awhile ago and we finally found the time to go...

The entire thing is free and open to the public. We took advantage of the free beer samples, hot cocoa and hot cider, wandered thru the tree maze, and enjoyed the digital light show. We did also pay for food from the beirgarten (which wasn't fantastic or anything but also wasn't unreasonably priced) and a family smores kit...which we then proceeded to make at one of the fires. (That was definitely the highlight for us, and by the end Micah was simply burning the roasting stick provided. Because I have boys, people. And they like fire, lol.)

Fortunately, it wasn't as cold as it has been, and it was a lovely new experience for us to try together. :) If you're local and haven't been, you should go!