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Hi. I'm Amanda...a happy wife and mom to three awesome guys. We've lived here in Fort Collins for more than 20 years and are proud to call it home. Before moving to CO, I worked at a city attorney's office, making use of my law and Master's degrees from Duke. After settling in Fort Collins, I homeschooled my three (now grown) sons and was delighted to experience music classes, soccer, karate, swim team, archery, Science Olympiad, First Lego League, parkour, and climbing (not all at the same time!). From 2005-10, I was also a contributing editor for a national scrapbooking magazine, authoring a book and a couple of monthly columns. From 2009-10, I founded and ran the Good Grief Blog. I enjoy learning new things, spending time with my family, volunteering with The Matthews House, traveling and indoor rock climbing.

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Tuesday
Jun232015

Ten on Tuesday: Random Stuff Happening Here

1. My Noah started drivers ed today! Drivers ed, people!! How the heck did that happen? Sigh. Technically, he's not old enough to get his permit yet but we opted to do the classroom time during the summer so as not to have to fit that into our schedule during the school year. So. He has four days of classroom instruction and then will do two days of "Drive Camp" where they'll teach him skills like skidding and crash avoidance and crisis braking. He can't do his on-street instruction (6 hours worth) until the fall, once he has his permit. And then he'll have to wait a full year from when he gets the permit...and put in 50 hours of driving with one of us...and then he can get his license. He's not actually in any hurry. And we're not in any rush to insure a teenage boy driver. But. Having an extra driver may come in handy... ;)

2. Micah went to a demo team performance this morning for Karate West. (They perform for groups at the local elementary schools during the summer. Kids and their parents come to the schools to check out books and such and the demo team performs and lets the kids try some moves.) Today's was performance four out of six, I believe.

Here are some pics from the previous three performances:

(Micah's the short one in the back pair and Asher's got a red stripe on his pants.)

3. Where was Asher for today's performance, you ask? Well, the pediatrician's office informs me that they've been busier since school got out...with a definite increase in injury appointments as opposed to sickness appointments. We, of course, added to those statistics last week. ;) Asher somehow managed to scrape the skin off the tops of his toes (8 out of 10) by sliding down the water slide into the gym pool (feet first, standard sitting position) and hitting the bottom of the pool. (Yeah, I can't really figure it out either. I wasn't there, but that's what Nathan says happened.) Most of them are now starting to scab over just fine, but the pinky toes are somewhat gaping wounds. We ended up at the doctor's office to see whether stitches might be in order but apparently so much of the skin is gone that there wasn't enough to stitch together. So. Steri-strips and non-stick pads and medical tape and socks are our friends. Mostly, everything's all fine. But keeping Asher from jumping around and running and everything else is not easy. And we want things to heal without him constantly breaking them open again. Fun times.

(Btw, this incident came two weeks after Micah fell from his bike and scraped up his hand. He's totally fine now, but there was definitely more wailing and complaint out of that one than out of Asher. Drama much? ;) Micah ended up missing that night's demo team practice but then was fine, whereas Asher's going to need to sit out from karate class and practice and performances for at least this week, maybe more.)

4. I had my first mammogram just after my birthday. All good. :)

5. Asher just informed me that if you get swallowed by an octopus, you end up in Candyland. Just so you know.

6. Our homeschool group had a curriculum sale recently. I managed to score a few things and catch up with some friends, which was lovely. I'm pretty proud of myself for not buying a bunch of stuff that'll end up on the shelves and even managed to give away some of our extras. (We don't have as many extras lately, I find. I'm thinking that's a good thing, as it means that I'm getting better at actually buying what we'll use and using what we buy, lol.)

7. If you haven't seen the movies "McFarland, USA" and "Spare Parts," I recommend them. Micah and I went to the cheap theater to watch the first one and we all watched the second one on dvd recently. 

8. We also went to see "Jurassic World" not long ago. I was actually a bit surprised that Micah was the one asking to go, as he previously declared "Jurassic Park" to be "the worst movie EVER" (based on his fear of dinosaurs and scary things in general, lol). (Mind you, this was just last year...*maybe* the year before that.) Apparently, having the actor who also starred in "Guardians of the Galaxy" was enough to offset his fears. :)

9. Last Saturday, our lovely orthodontist invited her clients to a special showing of "Inside Out," complete with free popcorn and soda for each person. It was actually rather impressive...more than 450 clients and their family & friends. We took up two screens. Obviously, the braces business is good. ;)

The movie, btw, was pretty good. It's even been useful in helping certain youngest sons talk about their emotions, lol.

10. Lest you think we just watch a heap of movies (which we do, lol)...I mentioned before that I've been getting these monthly subscription boxes. Finally got around to tackling our first Doodle Crate. We did a sculpting one, and I got some extra supplies so we could all participate:

Noah made a Smash Ball. It's a video game thing. He went mostly two dimensional...very simple. ;) (I don't have a finished picture because he put his on paper clip risers and covered it with a tin foil tent afterward, when we were letting them dry. (It's air dry clay...fun stuff!) He wouldn't let me move the tin foil, which is apparently protecting everything from dust, lol.) 

Asher made the Avengers "A" (happy coincidence that it also works for Asher, eh?). He also made a little leopard, or so he tells me. 

Micah, comparatively, went a bit more ambitious. ;) 

He decided to make the face of Saruman (the evil wizard in Lord of the Rings) given that the actor recently died and Micah wanted to commemorate him. 

It got a little messy, lol. And, in case you're wondering, a giant Easter egg makes the perfect base for a Saruman head. 

Meanwhile, I joined in and made a little dragon...

And that's some of what's been happening here. ;) 

Sunday
Jun212015

My guy

Though we're really not celebrating at all here (keeping it low-key like Mother's Day as the two of us have fun summer plans next month), I wanted to wish my dear husband...my partner in this parenting journey...a very happy Father's Day. I so appreciate the man that he is and the example that he's setting for our sons.

As per tradition, I took our annual boys-playing-miniature-golf-with-Nathan photo when we were up in Estes recently:

And now back to other things. ;)

Love you, Nathan!  

Tuesday
Jun092015

Update on my 40 before 40 list...

40 Before 40. So, here's my update on the list I shared last year...the ones in bold are done. :)

1. Complete the Equinox half marathon (I officially blame Deanna if I live to regret this, lol.) -- Nope. And I don't regret it at all, lol. ;)
2. Read 40 books (Shouldn't be a problem) -- Done! I actually read 80 books between birthdays, so I'm good. I'll share some of my favorites sometime...
3. Volunteer (I'm deliberately leaving this vague and will see what opportunities arise...) -- I didn't really manage this to my satisfaction. Going to work on it!
4. Update this blog (new header and organization and maybe an actual plan?) -- Will get to this someday...
5. Get a good family portrait taken -- We've actually managed a few that I really like...not professional or anything, but I like 'em. :)
6. Try a new recipe monthly -- Nope.
7. Pay for a stranger's meal -- Yup.
8. Try yoga -- Nathan and I took an introductory class last week!
9. Do a pull up unassisted -- No. But, to be fair, I haven't actually tried. Will work on that.
10. Go to high tea with Molly -- Molly tells me that going to the Cartier exhibit doesn't count and that we still need to go to high tea. It's in the works. 
11. Draw more -- Check! Thanks to Micah's enthusiasm, we've actually made it most of the way through a drawing curriculum this year...with me working on the assignments alongside the boys. 
12. Throw a party -- I don't think I did anything that would count for this. 
13. Splurge on a "good" bra (that's not a sports bra and isn't designed only for comfort, lol) -- Done. 
14. Update my passport (and get some for boys) -- Sadly, no. Will remedy this.
15. Create a family portrait collage for the hallway (I've had the frame and the spot ready for ages...) -- Dude. I really should do this.
16. Read at least 5 books out loud with the boys -- Done.
17. Archive all my photos -- Nope. In progress.
18. Watch Casablanca (because I never have) -- Done.
19. Get my wisdom teeth out (not exciting, I know, but it would be nice to have done and off my list, lol) -- Okay, I didn't do this. I did, though, get one of Noah's wisdom teeth removed. Does that count? ;)
20. Hand make Christmas cards again -- Do photo cards that I created count?
21. Run 400 miles -- Well, I stopped keeping track after last summer. I've definitely, definitely walked more miles than that, though, so I'm counting this. (Thank you, FitBit! According to my FitBit, I've walked over 800 miles just since getting it in December.) :)
22. Dress up for Comic Con -- Done!
23. Write a letter once a month (using actual stationery and stamps) -- Technically, not really. But. I've been sending a note to my mom once a week this year as part of her birthday gift. Does that count? Let's say that counts. ;)
24. Go to a drive in movie with the boys -- Didn't manage this. Maybe this summer?
25. Take the boys to a baseball game -- I had plans, honest, to take boys to the local minor league baseball game on Saturday (just under the deadline, lol). Didn't happen. Thanks to Nathan's parents, though, they did get to go to a football game. I'm totally counting that, since the spirit of the goal was met.
26. Take an art class (for me!) -- No. But. I took a class about arduinos and a couple classes about curling. Again, the spirit of the goal was met. :)
27. Grow cucamelons -- I tried!! I did. Sadly, they did not cooperate. :(
28. Find my perfect pair of jeans (I hate shopping for jeans but love the convenience of jeans, so this would be huge) -- I've found a couple, but they're definitely not perfect. The hunt continues...
29. Visit a national park I've not been to before -- Done. 
30. Update my will and emergency family documents -- Definitely need to work on this!
31. Make it all the way through a 30 day hula hooping challenge -- Done.
32. Try a different hair color -- Done.
33. Finish my unfinished projects for others -- Done.
34. Go ice skating (haven't been in decades) -- Done.
35. Use our new local MAX system at least once -- Hanging my head. 
36. Declutter at least 40 items from my stuff -- Done, easily. I love purging!
37. Shoot my bow with the boys more regularly and score at least one 30 -- Hmm. Not really.
38. Establish regular date nights...once a month with each of my guys -- Done.
39. Buy more shoes (because I figure I should have at least one item on here that's a given, lol) -- Done. :)
40. Make a bucket list for the coming decade (so that I can put some bigger items on the list and have enough time to have a shot at accomplishing them) ;) -- I'm more than half way done with this list...still working on it...

So, by my count, I finished 21 of these...which is more than half...which means I win, right? ;)

(Regardless, I had a fabulous time working my way through this list and feel like it's been a really good experience. I highly recommend it!)

Monday
Jun082015

The Big 4-0

Yesterday, I turned 40. Yup. 

To celebrate this milestone and Nathan's later this summer (he's a couple months younger), we're planning our first non-kid trip in 15 years. We're pretty darn stoked! Woohoo!!!

Given our plans for next month, then, we went low-key for my actual birthday but still managed to have a really fabulous weekend. To start, my friend Molly came up Saturday to take me out for a pedicure...

(I don't think I've ever gone with pink nail polish before, lol. Mine's not as bright as Molly's, but still. Fun!) After our pedicures, we had an awesome day of shopping and chatting. Meanwhile, Nathan and the boys tackled most of our normal weekend chores and bought me these lovely peonies...

Then on Sunday (my actual birthday), we headed up to Estes Park for the day. These guys welcomed us...

They were right off the road...seriously close and unconcerned. 

Then, given the uncertainty of the weather lately, we opted to hit the miniature golf course first. It wasn't as "cool" as some of the other courses we've played but it's a sentimental favorite.

(Noah snapped this while we were playing.)

During our round, I got out my selfie stick and made boys pose with me since it was my birthday... ;)

...and then made them pose with me some more after we'd finished at the miniature golf course and headed for downtown Estes...

Then we ate at Ed's Cantina (a favorite of ours and something we'd been looking forward to for months) and wandered the shops and got ice cream and a caramel apple at Hayley's. We snapped some more pictures...

...before making our final stop at Kind Coffee (for Nathan) and driving back home for a late afternoon nap and dinner and just enjoying being together.

Happy birthday to me! :)

Sunday
May312015

One year later...

So. Almost exactly one year ago, we made some initial attempts at yard work. (It only took us ten years, lol.) Since then, we've had a whirlwind of plantings and hail storms and roof replacements and house painting and patio installation and fence replacement and tree removals and debris removal and sprinkler system tweaking and such. Whew. 

You can understand, then, that we weren't particularly enthusiastic about tackling much more in the way of yard work this summer. ;) With this in mind, we trekked to the Fort Collins Nursery on Saturday with the intent of picking up two plants (to replace two plants we wanted to pull out because they'd grown unruly and were killing multiple other plants beneath/beside them) and some mulch for the backyard patio area. 

Somehow, though, we came home with this... ;)

...and subsequently spent the afternoon replanting those two spots that we'd initially set out to do...plus these pots by the front door...

Ta da!

Whew. It took longer than anticipated. But. It's done! 

I won't mention how all of this led to the discovery that our gutters (which Nathan already cleaned once this year) needed cleaning again (which Nathan was sweet enough to do today before it rained since the rain overflow would have leveled my new potted plants)...or how as soon as we got home from the nursery our garage door broke (which we fortunately managed to get fixed today since the repair truck/guy wouldn't be able to get here Monday and possibly Tuesday due to the paving crews in our neighborhood)...or how Nathan got rather sunburned...or how we didn't even get to the back yard and now have decided to wait until fall on that. LOL.

Yup. Not mentioning that. :) 

On the bright side, Nathan also hung this tree slice that I painted...

And on that happy note, we're proclaiming ourselves done with any new projects for the time being. Knock on wood. ;)