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Hi. I'm Amanda...a happy wife and mom to three awesome guys. We've lived here in Fort Collins for more than 20 years and are proud to call it home. Before moving to CO, I worked at a city attorney's office, making use of my law and Master's degrees from Duke. After settling in Fort Collins, I homeschooled my three (now teenage and older) sons and was delighted to experience music classes, soccer, karate, swim team, archery, Science Olympiad, First Lego League, parkour, and climbing (not all at the same time!). From 2005-10, I was also a contributing editor for a national scrapbooking magazine, authoring a book and a couple of monthly columns. From 2009-10, I founded and ran the Good Grief Blog. I enjoy learning new things, spending time with my family, volunteering with The Matthews House, traveling and indoor rock climbing.

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Thursday
Feb182010

The Olympics...

So. The Olympics. Here's what I have to say:

1. The watching of them is totally interfering with my ability to get anything else done. I'm weak like that. Please feel free to come help me sort my front room and basement so that we might finally put all the boxes away. The tv isn't in the front room. It's causing me trouble. ;)

2. Nathan pointed out, and I have to agree, that it's really quite sad to compare the reactions of Olympic athletes and American Idol contestants. The athletes who have trained day in and day out for years and missed the medals by a very little or even a very large amount still remain poised, take responsibility for their actions and (for the most part) remain positive. They recognize that this is not the end of the world and that these things happen. 

Meanwhile, the American Idol contestants (many of whom have trained not at all and had not dedicated their lives to this until recently) wail and cry and beg...claiming that the judges should recognize and apparently reward the fact that they "really, really want it" and declare that they don't know what they'll do because this is their (only) shot.

Makes you a wee bit disgusted, no?

3. Can someone please explain to me the judging system for the figure skating? Once upon a time, I thought I knew. Now apparently it's all changed, and I'm confused. Why won't Scott Hamilton explain it to me?

4. Does anyone know how to prevent four and seven year old boys from trying to duplicate the crazy, big stunts the snowboard half-pipe guys did? (And, no, they don't have snowboards, nor have they ever even been on skis. This is all happening in my family room.)

Tuesday
Feb162010

Things Micah talks about...

Lest anyone wonder what Micah talks about when given free reign to talk (such as on Mondays when his brothers are at Options and he has my undivided attention for those 7 hours), I thought I'd keep track just for kicks. Here, I kid you not, is a *partial* list of things he talked to me about yesterday (and by "talked to me about" I mean just randomly started in on unrelated conversations):

- his displeasure at not getting to go drop his brothers off in the morning (I thought I'd be nice and let him sleep in since Nathan was working from home for the day)

- his reasoning for deciding to wear matching socks for a change (yes, he generally has on mismatched socks...he just likes to be different)

- his matter-of-fact attitude about pairs figure skating (we were watching stuff we'd recorded the night before) and how, obviously, the man should be older and how at 36 and 31 the Chinese pair just went to show that and didn't I know that 5 years was a big difference in age?

- explaining how his pretend metal detector worked and how I was lucky that I didn't have any meteorites in me (after thoroughly scanning me)

- his wondering what an accountant was and why we were going to see one (dropping off the tax stuff) and whether taxes were anything like his allowance

- seeing if I could figure out what he was whispering (though he wasn't really saying anything)

- counting how many dolphins were in the painting hanging in the accountant's office 

- his amazement at the accountant's double ended pencil (he was fascinated and told her that he'd never seen anything like that and that he was going to tell his brothers all about it)

- wondering why an Asian food place wouldn't serve mac & cheese for lunch (Nathan and I decided to go out for a late Valentine's lunch since he technically had Presidents' Day off, with Micah accompanying us)

- making me quiz him on math questions like 21 plus 21 and asking for a reminder about how multiplication and addition were different

- trying to figure out how one would capture The Invisible Man on "Monsters vs. Aliens" and then concluding that the guitar playing must have given The Invisible Man away (note, The Invisible Man is mentioned for all of one or two lines in the show and no where is there any mention of guitars)

- trying to figure out why a bad guy would kill another bad guy (in this case, specifically, why Darth Vader would kill the Emperor in "Return of the Jedi")

- wondering what "fates" are and why they would be mentioned on in his fortune cookie

- a very one-sided conversation hypothesizing on why the waitress brought him two different sized spoons and who would be able to use the larger one that she brought

- an even more one-sided argument with himself about who was right among his lego mini-figures...no idea what "right" was, just heard him going back and forth talking out all sides of the conversation

- declaring that he wasn't going to have kids until he was 31 because that seemed like a good number and then playing with numbers quickly after asking how old I was when I had him (30) and finding it funny that he was four now and I'm 34 and how 30 plus 4 is 34 and how if you added our ages now you'd get 38

- wondering how dirt got on his finger (amazingly, this one lasted quite awhile as he didn't believe me that he'd simply touched something with dirt...then we had to go into how he might possibly clean it...and all the many options that entailed, lol...settled on waiting to wash his hands at the bathroom at Options because they have a little kid sink that's just his height that he likes, though (he informs me) it would be better if they also had an automatic soap dispenser and not that circle mirror because he likes rectangles better)

- trying to remember the name of the "Sharks and Minnows" game he'd played in indoor soccer (because Noah and Asher had played it at Options and he wanted to tell us all about when he'd played it but didn't think they had the name right because he thought it was called "Sharks and Minerals" and could not be persuaded otherwise)

- wanting to look for books about the Olympics at the library and discussing (aloud) why he has a hard time remembering to be quiet at the library

- adding his opinion to our discussion about what type of containers to get to hold the legos in the yellow room now that we've rearranged things and declaring his delight in finding a lego set that had a toilet (yes, really)

- discussion about the difference between steak and beef and ground beef, as we made tacos for dinner but he wanted to be sure they weren't steak tacos because he doesn't like steak and have I ever heard of any 4 year old who likes steak because that would be weird? (I replied that actually Noah liked steak when he was 4...Micah just gave me a dirty look)

- lots of cheering for Canada during the Olympics (mostly to irritate Noah who's very, incredibly partial to all US Olympians)

- and plenty of other completely random things.

And now you know. ;)

Monday
Feb152010

"The boys with all the little snow hills"

1. Sorry I've been MIA. Boys gave me their cold last weekend. Good news is that they all recovered quickly and that it's no biggie...just congestion and cough enough to keep me at less than 100% all week. All better now. ;)

2. Happy day after Valentine's Day! We didn't do anything in particular, as I find the holiday rather pointless and commercial (and hearts and pink just aren't really my style, lol). Not all too heartbroken that our homeschool group opted not to do a Valentine's party this year. ;) Gave the boys some miscellaneous Lego pieces (mostly for their mini-figures) and fully plan to stock up on the after-Valentine's-Day candy sales, LOL!

3. New challenge up over on the Good Grief Blog! Check it out!

4. The Olympics are going to seriously impede my getting things done for the next two weeks! Our weekend was fairly full of Olympics watching and I love seeing how enthusiastic the boys get. In particular (this weekend), they liked the moguls...or, as Micah said "the boys with all the little snow hills"...to which Noah corrected, "no, you mean the men's monguls." Yeah, need to work on the lingo, but the cheering is good all the same. ;)

Saturday
Feb062010

What I did yesterday...and other stuff...

So. Yesterday, I spent more than an hour playing with Lego mini-figures with the boys. We were cleaning/sorting the yellow room (also known as the Lego room) so that we can put up more shelves this weekend. Because I'm crazy, we decided to sort through all the Legos whilst we had most of the "excess" ones (those not claimed by one of the boys for some project or another...yes, this is a very large number of additional Legos) in a number of drawers. We pulled out any mini-figure pieces and set those all aside. Then, we laughed and laughed as we created as many full mini-figures as we could out of the pieces we'd just culled. We came up with this:

 
Yup, these 5 dozen or so mini-figures were the "leftovers"...the poor souls that hadn't been claimed for the boys' Lego town. Counting all of those also, we have roughly 140 mini-figures. Sad, but true.

(And, actually, we have about 20 extra heads for some reason...not sure if there are poor bodies without heads somewhere or what. Asher pointed out that at least a few of the bodies without heads are in each boys' stash because they're extra changes of clothes for their mini-figure representation of themselves, but I don't know where the rest of the bodies are, lol.)

Anyhow. It was great fun. We tried to out-do each other in creating the weirdest people.

Now. If you're wondering why I was cleaning the dreaded Lego room...let me tell you...

In short, because we're re-organizing and painting the basement, everything got moved into the front room (the "school" room). As part of the basement re-organization, we also cleared out the play area (just next to the front room) and decided to make that into the dining area it was originally intended for. The awesome new dining table that Nathan's parents got us for Christmas now sits in said dining area, awaiting a time when we've finished shuffling boxes all around the house, such that there aren't boxes filling the rest of the space (hopefully soon). The boys, in losing the play area and the front room and the rec room and the family room, where they'd generally played before, took over the new dining table as a staging ground for their Lego city. 

Before I can finish sorting the front room, though, I need more room in the dining area. Which means I needed boys and Legos back to the yellow room. In order to get them back to the yellow room, we needed a miracle. The yellow room, you see, was not passable. As in, it was unsafe to walk in. As in, I couldn't see the floor...it was covered in Lego creations that I was not supposed to touch. (The boys love to build the Lego kits as they come but them modify them as they go and add them to their "fleet"...they somehow knew where every one of these creations belonged and were able to still get to the drawers of loose Legos. Amazing really.) 

Anyhow, because my boys rock, I woke up earlier this week to find them tackling the yellow room floor all by themselves (having explained to them the day before my plan and why I needed the yellow room cleaned). So. I missed the complete devastation picture, but here's what it looked like after they'd made pretty good progress:

Yes, this is after significant progress. See? You can see the carpet. That's huge. So. We then proceeded to finish cleaning and sorting the yellow room, purging most anything that wasn't Lego, hence the time for playing with mini-figures, and are now just waiting for Nathan and Noah to get home with the shelving supplies. We're going to add big ol' shelves in the closet at boy height so that each boy will have a place to put his creations...a place that is *not* on the floor. ;) (I sectioned off spots on the floor using painters tape that are the same size as the shelves will be so that the boys knew how much they could keep. The rest got "recycled" for future building. And, yes, we took the doors off the closet long ago...just easier.)

Whew. So. After this weekend, hopefully, we'll have the yellow room in better order, such that the Legos can stay in the yellow room. (The reasoning here is that if the floor was clear enough that they could actually play in there, they'd stop bringing all the Legos to the dining table.) And. The last coat of paint on the trim in the guest room goes on later today. (For those who don't know, painting trim is not fun. At all.) Then, we can move the stuff from the guest room back into the guest room (it's currently taking up much of the space in the rec room). That will leave the rec room mostly empty, except for the toys from the former play area that will be moved down there (and the toys that were originally down there that are presently in the front room waiting). Here's what the rec room looked like once emptied:

And here's what it looks like now (or will look like once we move the stuff back into the guest room):

 
And, yes, we still plan to put a fort down there. But. We're trying to be realistic and have decided perhaps that can wait until spring. ;) Technically, we still plan to paint the doors in the basement (just a cleaner white) but think that may wait till spring, too. 

So. After all that, I'll just need to finish sorting the stuff in the front room and get that all out to where it will now live. And maybe, just maybe, we'll take next weekend off. Or, if we're feeling crazy, we'll go look for new light fixtures for the dining area and front entry and paint the half wall in the dining area and try to finish off that stuff...we'll see...LOL...I kinda feel like after all this work to get the rec room more open for the boys, we deserve to make the main level a bit prettier. ;) Then again, there's definitely something to be said for not painting anything... ;)

Thursday
Feb042010

Micah funnies...

Because the kid just continues to crack me up...

1. A couple days ago, he was watching an episode of Mythbusters (all of the boys love that show!). The episode was about superhero myths. Adam (one of the main characters) swishes his cape and declares something like, "And now I'm off to fight crime!" Micah, totally serious, turns to me and says, "Who's Crime? I didn't see him on the show."

2. Yesterday at bedtime, Micah was rather upset (to the point of tears). The reason? The periodic table of the elements book that the boys have been having Nathan read to them for bedtime (yes, they requested it...after they finished the Rocks & Minerals book by the same author) didn't cover all the elements. Micah is convinced that they were deliberately leaving out the interesting ones (they must be interesting, Micah reasons, because he doesn't know about them). He was seriously mad. Gotta love that kid.

3. Micah's new plan of attack for soccer appears to be distraction. During his indoor soccer sessions the past couple of weeks, he's taken to alternating between "zapping" the other team using lightning from his hands (like the emperor in "Return of the Jedi") and slicing them down with pretend light sabers. Sound effects are, of course, in evidence as he's been chasing the other team around the field while the rest of his team goes after the ball. I tried to take a picture tonight, but his scrimmage was on the far side. Seemed like the only logical thing to do. ;)