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No surprises

I forgot! In my list of random things to tell you about, I meant to include that Nathan and I recently sent our dna samples to 23andMe, one of those ancestry services where you send them your spit and they tell you about your ancestral background and various health things.

I'd seen some chatter about the services and was curious. Being adopted, I have a definite lack of family medical history. (Backstory...I was born in South Korea somewhere, was found on some steps of a government building around age 6 months (???), went to an orphanage and foster care, and was adopted around age 11 months. Officially, I lack a birth certificate or a specific birth place...so obviously have no information about much of anything, lol.)

Anyhow, as I was saying...curious. So, when I saw during Amazon's Prime Day this summer that the kits were half off, I went ahead and grabbed a couple kits. We got them in the mail, did our part (spitting in the provided tubes) and sent everything back in. Then, we waited.

And now we have our results! (Mine came back pretty quick...Nathan's took another couple weeks. We figure this is because parts of their process involve comparing your results to similar results...and 23andMe has a lot more data from people who look like Nathan than people who look like me, lol.)

Drumroll please...

I'm Korean and Nathan's white. ;)  

LOL. We'd thought that possibly there would be some surprise ancestor in there some place, but apparently we're both pretty straight-forward. Specifically...

My dna says 100% East Asian

  • 73.4% Korean
  • 11.1% Japanese
  • 6.3% Chinese
  • and "other" East Asian

...which all makes sense given the history of the area.

Nathan's says 99.6% European

  • 43.5% British & Irish (I'm assuming this would include Scottish)
  • 19.5% French & German
  • 30.7% broadly Northwestern European
  • other miscellaneous European stuff
  • and 0.4% Native American

...this all matches with the extensive genealogy that both sides of his family have done.

The reports are pretty interesting...they can gauge how long ago those various ancestries happened and all sorts of things. For instance, it says that the Korean part is the more recent and that the Japanese and Chinese parts, in keeping with the history of occupation and such, were from the 1700s and 1800s.

With the health portion of the kit (you can get a kit just for the ancestry part but we got the "upgraded" kits), we also found out that neither of us is carriers for the 42 things 23andMe tests for and neither of us has an increased risk for any of the four genetic health risks they test for. Plus, neither of us likely has red hair, neither of us are likely to have a widow's peak, I am more likely to have dry earwax (true) while Nathan is more likely to have wet earwax (also true), we're both likely to have detached earlobes (not true...mine are attached), and heaps of other strange things.

So. That's that. :) 

I know that none of these results should be taken as medical advice and all that, but I feel better having at least *some* information and being able to give that to my sons.

(If you're at all interested in the service or have questions, please feel free to contact me. Plus, I have a referral link I can send you if you're thinking about buying the service.)


Unicorns, curling and butterfly bandages

Sorry it's been quiet here...keeping busy, mostly with getting into our school year routine (which I'll update about soon). Aside from school stuff, here are three quick stories of other things going on here:

1. Micah recently decided he needed new pajamas (having previously mostly just slept in his clothes). I took him to look at choices. This is what he picked:

(Yes, I got his permission to post this.) Yup, it's a pink unicorn. He's named the pajamas "Sparkles" and loves them. He had it narrowed down to this or a Chewbacca pajama...this one won on account of how soft and comfy it is. :)  He may use this as his Halloween costume this year also...money well spent!

2. Last weekend, there was a curling tournament here in Fort Collins (through the recreations department I think). Nathan, Micah and I went and were spectators for a bit:

It's not the most exciting thing to watch but we enjoyed it, having learned the basics from watching the Olympics and then during the curling class we took a couple years ago.

3. Yesterday at gymnastics Asher had a wee mishap. I'd walked from there over to Whole Foods to grab a few things (about a 10 minute walk). I was still shopping when I got a call from the gymnastics instructor that went something like this:

Him: "Asher's gashed his eye a bit. It looks like maybe it might need a stitch or two."
Me: (after thinking about how I couldn't get back immediately anyhow) "Is he okay?"
Him: (with a chuckle and sounding somewhat surprised) "He seems fine."
Me: "Okay. Well, if he doesn't seem to want me right now and it doesn't require immediate attention, I'll be back in about 30 minutes."

So, I proceeded to finish my shopping and walk back. There was still class for another 15 minutes or so when I got there, and Asher was participating and looking like he was having a great time. (They'd bandaged him up a bit.) I waited...and had more than one mom come up to tell me that Asher had hurt himself and that they hoped he was okay. At the end of class, he was more concerned about the blood all over his shirt than about his eye. (Head wounds bleed a lot. I know this from experience, with Asher.) I talked with the instructor, who was amazed by Asher's pain tolerance and my easy attitude about the situation, then washed Asher up a bit more, added some ointment and stuck a new bandaid on him from the stash I perpetually keep in my purse. Yeah. This isn't something new for me at all, lol. 

Once home, we had him shower and clean up again (there was dried blood in other places) then rebandaged him again...this time with the butterfly bandages that I normally have in my purse (and have since replenished my supply of). (And, while we were at it, I rebandaged the big scrape on his knee from last week's trampoline park outing with his demo team friends...that one's still healing. I go through a lot of bandaids.)

Then we went to karate; and, by the end, he had blood dripping down his face again. (But I don't think he minded the attention from all the girls who gasped at his bandaging and asked him what happened when he walked in, lol.) Again, shower and butterfly bandaging. We debated but decided if he could just not be overly active for a bit it would probably not open up again...so chose not to take him to get stitches or anything.

Today, he seems fine:

(He takes his glasses off during gymnastics and karate, fyi.) He may have to skip karate tomorrow (it's a sparring class), but here's hoping the gash stays closed!

(In case you're wondering, the gash was caused by one of the rings...that collided with Asher's face while he was doing a handstand in them. Yeah, I can't picture it either. That's what he and his instructor told me. I'm just grateful it wasn't any bigger and wasn't any closer to his eyeball. Also, the swelling has gone down a good bit and it didn't bruise up like I worried it might.)

So. That's some of what's been going on here. I have a list of other things to update about and will get to them soon. Hope your September is going well!!


2017-2018 Homeschool Plan

First Wednesday of our school year is in the books!

As has become custom, here's a description of our plan for the year (which can also be found under the Curriculum tabs over on the left for each boy)...

First off, though, in general...continuing to homeschool both Asher and Micah. At present, Asher wants to just continue homeschooling with me, so our plan is to do that for high school. Micah wants to do high school at CEC like Noah but needs to wait till he turns 14. In our homeschooling, we continue with our mostly six weeks on, one week off approach...so six sessions throughout the year with a bit of a summer break. On a daily level, we tend to do independent work in the mornings (things like math and language arts primarily) and group work in the afternoons.

This year, I'm really trying to simplify and focus on quality over quantity...going for depth.

Now. For the specific plan...

Geometry, Harold Jacobs

So. I've tried various combinations over the years...having each boy have a separate math program, having them do the same thing, having them to some together and some separate. This year, I've decided to have them do it together again. I'm also switching gears a bit. We've been doing pre-algebra and algebra for a few years now and probably need to reinforce that. But. Since math isn't a favorite for either of these two, I'm going with geometry this year and will return to algebra next year, in the hopes that we can establish a better attitude toward math in the meantime. ;) I've not used this particular textbook before but have read good reviews so am hopeful.

Wordly Wise, books 7 & 9
Analytical Grammar, seasons 1-2 plus reinforcements & Jr Analytical Grammar & Mechanics
Writing & Rhetoric, books 6-8
- selected reading

We've not embraced language arts in the past so are probably still doing a bit of catching up (though we made some good progress last year which makes me happy). :) So, this year we're working on the basics. For vocabulary, we'll continue using Wordly Wise. We did this last year and it was good.

For grammar, we're using Analytical Grammar. I was happy with this awhile back when I used it with Noah...I like the repetition and straight-forward-ness. It's not hugely fun but I felt it really did the job and covered what I wanted covered. Asher will be doing seasons 1 & 2 of the main curriculum, plus using the high school reinforcements book. Micah will use the junior set of curriculum.

For writing, I'm proud to say that we actually did some last year (a major accomplishment for us!). We finished out last year with the Writing & Rhetoric curriculum (starting from the beginning and using books 1-4 for some accelerated review). This year, we'll continue with that...using books 6-8. (Honestly, I feel like we probably still need more in this area but haven't settled on what just yet.)

And, for reading, we'll continue with required but self-selected reading. Boys each need to read at least 600 pages per six week session on their own time. Usually they end up reading much more than that, particularly since I offer an incentive of $10 per 1000 pages. :) I'll probably also assign some books to be read (that tie in to other subjects) throughout the year.

Science for High School, Biology
The Story of Science: Aristotle Leads the Way, Joy Hakim
The Story of Science: Newton at the Center, Joy Hakim
The Story of Science: Einstein Adds a New Dimension, Joy Hakim
First Lego League team

Asher will be studying biology this year. The curriculum I found has an approach I particularly like and hope works well. He's assigned questions at the beginning of each lesson. He spends the week researching and finding the answers on his own (he can use the internet, textbooks, books I have around the house, etc) and typing them out. At the end of the week, he'll present his findings to me, I'll give him a quiz and we'll do the lab for that lesson. Cool. (And, for the record, I have a dead frog in my office currently awaiting dissection. Awesome.)

Asher will also be doing an elective--History of Science. I'm assigning him to read about four chapters a week (using the three Story of Science books that we didn't get to last year since Science Olympiad took up more time than originally anticipated). He then needs to write up a summary for each chapter along with answering a couple questions for me (like what he found most interesting and what he'd be interested in knowing more about). I figure both of these will also help with writing. ;) I'll also have him do some sort of project (as yet undecided) at the completion of each book. 

Micah, meanwhile, won't be doing science with Asher this year...and our Science Olympiad team disbanded after their great successes (some started public school and they don't allow mixed teams). Micah, though, was invited to join a First Lego League team with friends. (We've looked into this before but couldn't ever convince any of the boys to actually participate. Noah was interested in the robotics aspect but not the team aspect. Asher and Micah weren't interested in the robotics aspect. Micah's desire to spend more time with his friends has over-ridden any lack of interest in robotics, lol. He'll figure out the robotics in no time, though.) He's been meeting with them on Tuesday mornings...which means that Asher and I have all day Monday and the first part of Tuesday for one-on-one work. Everything else, then, fits into Wednesday-Friday.

Prisoners of Geography, Tim Marshall

Rather than history this year, our humanities/social studies course will be based on this book. We'll go through the ten chapters, discussing how geography affects politics and the world (and also learning our geography better). 

- Karate (twice a week throughout the year)
Karate demo team (1-2 practices/week plus roughly monthly performances)
- Gymnastics (once a week, just Asher)  

We've got physical education covered. ;) 

Our Whole Lives

Though they're not fans at all, the boys and I will be covering sex ed through this program. (We have a number of friends who use this, though we're using it as a homeschool curriculum since the local meeting times for this class don't work for our schedule.) We're using the program designed for 7th to 9th graders. (We've actually done the program for 4th to 6th graders in the past. I appreciate the organized approach to prompt needed discussion.)

OPTIONS (one day a week enrichment program)

This year, only Micah will be attending Options. (Asher's too old now, as the program only goes up to 8th grade.) Classes haven't started there yet, but he's pretty excited to see friends next week. 

And that, I think, pretty much covers our homeschool plan for the year. Whew.


Second & Third Day of School pictures

So. Technically, Noah's classes at Front Range started on Monday. Fortunately, since we spent the day in Wyoming, his actual class schedule was such that he doesn't have classes on Mondays. Therefore, yesterday was his first day...

He made it to his three classes on campus just fine. (He has one online class also but apparently that doesn't start until next Monday.)

Yesterday, also, I started "official" school work with Asher. (I'm still counting Monday as our first day because total solar eclipses are educational and because I subjected them all to listening to me explain how our school year was going to work while we were in Wyoming, lol.) More details soon, but the morning went really well and he's honestly such a diligent student...

This morning, then, I started schoolwork with both Micah and Asher (Micah was gone yesterday morning--more on that later)...and got this when we started geometry...

...but also made them all go outside for some "official" start of school year pictures...

Yeah, they're all barefoot. We aren't actually going anywhere today. (Noah only has classes Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays.) 

And I took individual pictures...

We're calling Micah a 7th grader this year.

Asher's starting high school (homeschooling), so is 9th grade.

And my Noah is starting his SENIOR year!

I don't have a kindergarten picture (for comparison, as I'm seeing others do online with their seniors)...because I didn't take first day of school pictures until we started Options. So, here's a picture from August 2008, starting second grade at Options:

Awww. ;)

And now I'm all nostalgic. Sigh. Happy back to school to everyone else, too!

(Will be back with homeschooling plan/details...)


Path of Totality

Yup. We did it. We joined the throngs headed into Wyoming to be in the path of totality for yesterday's total eclipse. :) Given that we're fortunate enough to live just a couple hours from the path, we opted not to stay overnight there but to just get up early and drive. We left home just after 6am...

We made a mental note that perhaps we should have driven through town before getting onto I-25 with the eclipse traffic but stuck it out...averaging about 25-30 mph from home to the Wyoming border. Just inside the border, we stopped at the first rest area as a precaution. I must comment here that it was a bit surreal...all of the women I saw agreed with me. We walked in and there was a long line--for the MEN'S room! No waiting at all for the women's. Weird stuff but lots of happy, if confused, women. :) 

After that, we got back on the road...

(Some boys were maybe more awake than others, lol.) It was a pretty quiet and uneventful drive. We pulled off again at the rest area just north of Wheatland, WY. I wish I would have taken a picture, but you'd really have needed an aerial view to understand the scope of how crowded it was. It took us completely by surprise (you couldn't see it from I-25, so you just got off the exit and were amazed). Apparently, that was one of the first areas within the path of totality and people had decided that was close enough. Cars were everywhere (well past just the parking lot--lining the road on both sides and in fields all around)...the lines for the actual bathrooms at the rest area were out longer than the parking lot (we opted not to stop, obviously)...but everyone seemed happy. We kept going...

Rather than head into Glendo, WY (which was our original plan along with thousands of others), we turned off on some back roads and ended up just SE of town...

It was a pretty nice spot...not crowded at all...quiet...almost in the middle of the path of totality. And, we even had our own hawk family...

We parked around 10am (yes, it took about 4 hours to make a normally 2 hour drive and we were delighted that it was that short) and proceeded to play some games and talk about the upcoming school year and eat an early lunch. We also kept regular tabs on the progress of the eclipse...

Yeah. Some of my crew may have been annoyed by my wanting pictures and decided to ham it up, lol. 

I'm sad we didn't really do much prep for the event...didn't do any of the fun activities I saw people posting online with shadows and Moon Pies and such. But. I did take a picture of our shadows...

...and I got our eclipse glasses weeks and weeks ago. So there's that. :) 

Anyhow, finally the totality was upon us:

And it was lovely. And totally worth the day. 

Again, we're sad we didn't plan ahead to bring better equipment for taking photos (we even have a telescope and DSLR camera and tripods and all that), but we experienced it together and enjoyed it. It got eerily dark...the bugs all suddenly came out...it got cooler...we could see stars. Happy sigh.

After that, we got back on the road fairly quickly. When we finally made it back to I-25, we saw this:

So we decided not to get on the interstate and managed to follow back roads for a good while, getting back on the freeway somewhere south of Wheatland and north of Chugwater, ahead of the bulk of the traffic returning from Glendo and Casper. (Must interject here that Apple Maps really should have a way to distinguish between dirt roads and paved roads and that it would be awesome if they could include exit numbers, at least for the freeways.)

Overall, I'm so impressed by how cooperative and pleasant everyone was and how prepared Wyoming seemed to be. At the Chugwater rest area on the way home, I even noticed that someone had lined the top of the stalls with rolls of toilet paper so that they wouldn't have to keep coming in to restock. ;)

We made it home (after just a few stops) at 5pm. (Yes, the return trip took about an hour longer than getting there.) We feel like we did pretty darn well, as I've been seeing pictures of some of the traffic in Wyoming that we managed to miss.

Pretty awesome way to start our school year... :)